Rules of winter dressing

Don’t let the title of this post make you think, I am trying to infantilise you in any way. If Google search data is to be believed there have been 148,000,000 search results for this query. Now, keeping my data-oriented mind aside, as a style-lover, this is a question that has often befuddled me. You see winter brings its own set of sartorial dilemmas when the foggy mind is asking things like what types of clothes to wear in winter to what length coat to wear with a dress. All legitimate questions, if your aim is to look chic and happy without wanting to lose a toe to the cold. After living in cold weather for eight years now, I think I am finally beginning to nail a foolproof winter look that is more than 100 denier tights and chunky boots. 

First up, it is important to understand that you need certain basics which are essentially your winter wardrobe arsenal, so opaque tights in various deniers are a must. But you should also have turtlenecks or roll necks, thermals and the quintessential scarfs. Once these basics are there you can easily build a winter wardrobe and take your June’s summer dress to the frosty morning of November. 

1.Wrap it up

A wrap dress is one of the most versatile dress styles that can flatter any matter no matter their age, shape or size. In summer you can wear it with nary a care and pair it with strappy heels or even trainers. But how to style summer’s wrap dress for winter? With a roll neck and patterned tights with knee-high boots and a statement belt.  Wearing a dress when it is zero degrees Celcius might seem like a challenge but once you have your basics in place, it is an easy outfit formula that can work for every occasion.

Here, I have done exactly that and added a warm faux suede coat in camel for the warmth and breaking the darkness of bottle green plus black combination. As a person, whose threshold for cold is remarkably low, I am pretty pleased to say I did not feel cold a single minute in this outfit. 

Dress (below): Silk Fred, Roll neck sweater: Marks & Spencer.

    2. Leggings to the rescue

Leggings or thermal leggings are your best friend. As you can, winter dressing relies upon basics like thermals and thermal leggings. A short shift dress can be winterised by adding a roll neck underneath and thermal leggings. Add finishing touches like a beret and you are ready to rock every occasion–whether it is that important meeting or a lunch date with your friends.

Dress: Yumi (old), leggings: Uniqlo

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    3. Brighten up with a chunky sweater

I love a cosy, chunky sweater and if it is in a nice bright colour, it is even better. Adding a chunky sweater over a dress or skirt is one of the easiest and sustainable ways to make your summer dresses do the winter dance. Add a knee-length boot for extra comfort and to doze off the chills.

Chunky knit: Dorothy Perkins (old, similar), Skirt: Next (old), Boots: Timberland (old)

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    4. Be businesslike with a structured blazer.

A pleated skirt with a white shirt is one of my favourite summer look for work. To give it a businesslike vibe, I recently added a thermal inside the shirt and polished it off with a structured blazer. Adding different layers not only keeps you cosy but adds drama and texture to your look.

Skirt: eBay (old), blazer: H&M (old), thermal: Marks & Spencer

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    5. Don’t underestimate the humble accessories

Accessories should not be underestimated. Whether it is a little beret or a chunky scarf all of these little things can help you to stay warm and use your summer dresses in winter without breaking your bank. A pop of colour in the form of winter accessories not only elevates your look but also breaks the monotony of winter greys and keeps you warm.

Beret: Marks & Spencer (old, similar)

How to wear summer dresses in winter

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I’ve been fascinated with Switzerland, right from my childhood, thanks to all the Bollywood movies I grew up on. To the uninitiated, Switzerland was a favourite destination for one of the key filmmaker in India, who changed the face of Indian and Bollywood cinema with his stylish direction and magical story-telling.

I am talking about the late Yash Chopra, who put Switzerland in the Bollywood map and who even got honorary Swiss citizenship for his contribution. My friends and family who have visited the place have always raved about it, some calling it heaven on earth.

A lot of times, when I go somewhere with such great expectations, it tends to not live up to it. However, Switzerland did not just exceed my expectations, it was beyond magical. So, without further ado, here are my top breathtaking Swiss experiences.

  1. Jungfraujoch Cogwheel train ride:
Jungfrau cogwheel experience
Jungfrau Cogwheel experience

The Jungfraujoch-Top of Europe station is at 3,454 m. This makes it the highest mountain railway station in Europe. Hopping on a cogwheel train to reach here was not in our plan but after exploring Wengen we were in a train to Grindelwald and a fellow traveller who worked in Wengen told us to take the cogwheel train from Klaine Scheidegg station. We are glad we got lost and took this stranger’s advice. The cogwheel train experience became one of the best train experiences I have ever had. 

Jungfrau Cogwheel experience

The Cogwheel train lets you enjoy the majestic Alpine panorama without you having to break a sweat. Throughout our journey, we had our jaws and eyes wide open, taking in the sheer natural beauty. Green vistas dotted with beautiful cottages, and the snow-capped Junfrau standing there, tall and proud.

2. Mount Titlis:

  • Mt Titlis cable car experience

When you are in Switzerland, exploring at least one mountain is a must. We decided to explore Mt Titlis, located between the cantons of Obwalden and Bern. The best way to reach Mount Titlis is via a cable car. From Lucerne, the Lucerne-Engelberg Express takes you to Engelberg. From there, you take a bus to the 8-seater Titlis Xpress gondola cable car, and then you ascend to the midway station at Stand. The Titlis revolving cable car takes you up to the mountain station at 3020 meters.

The journey on the Mt Titlis cable car to the summit station is about 10 minutes long. En route, you are greeted with views of sheer cliff faces, deep crevasses and snow-covered mountain peaks all around Mount Titlis. A word of warning: Be sure to reach Engelberg early. Mt. Titlis is a tourist hot spot and even in summer, you can experience a good bit of snow. If you want to avoid long queues at the summit station it is advisable to reach early.

  • Mt Titlis experience

Titlis is a truly spectacular experience. Right from the beginning when you hop on the cable car and meet cows lazily grazing grass to slow nearing the mountain and able to touch and play with snow even in summer! We had a fabulous time playing with the snowmobile, exploring the rather chilly glacier cave, walking precariously on the Titlis rope bridge.

The icing on the cake was definitely the Ice Flyer. Costing about 12 CHF, this flyer is a chairlift that takes you from Mount Titlis’ mountain station to its glacier park. It reminded us of a snow-filled theme park ride.

3. Walking and exploring Wengen village and nearby areas

Switzerland has many beautiful little villages, perfect for walking or hiking. We were originally planning to go to Grindelwald but ended up in Wengen– a decision we did not regret. Wengen is a picturesque Alpine village located in the Bernese Oberland region. Known for its timber chalets and belle époque hotels, Wengen also offers great cycling roads.

Wengen village, Switzerland

Wengen has a somewhat hippie vibe with several quirky cafes and sustainable coffee houses. On South of Wengen are the Trümmelbach glacier waterfalls, accessed via underground paths.

Trümmelbach glacier waterfalls
View from the waterfalls

From Wengen, you can easily take the cogwheel to top of Jungfrau or a train to Interlaken. After finishing Jungfrau, we made our way to Interlaken. Now, I wish we had stayed in Interlaken for a day or two. It is a haven for hikers, walkers and thrill-seekers.

Lake Thun

Unfortunately, we had just a few hours left before going back to our hotel in Zurich hence we decided to just walk near Lake Thun. With crystal clear waters and a relaxing vibe, Lake Thun is a place where you can just sit, relax and get lost in nature. Something you need after a day of walking and hiking.

4. Lake Lucern boat trip

Lake Lucern
Lake Lucern

If you are short on time, like us (5 days in Switzerland) and want to pack many different things then doing a boat trip is highly recommended. With a Swiss travel pass, you can get some discounts on most boat routes. From the open deck of the boat, you see the beautiful sights of Lucerne.

The boat meanders on a calm lake and passes through steep fjords all along giving you a glimpse of daily life, the pretty cottage houses, old Town and waterfront buildings.

5. Lake Zurich and Zurich old town:

When talking about Switzerland, how can we ignore one of its biggest cities–Zurich–the global centre for banking and finance. A very cool and sophisticated city.

At the heart of Zurich lies the old town. And the beauty of it is that it spans the stunningly blue Limmat river that runs right through the heart of Zurich. You can lose yourself for hours in the winding streets of this historic centre, finding quirky shops and cafes and soaking in the eclectic vibe of the city. 

No trip to Zurich is complete without spending some time on the shores of the iconic Zurich lake. Apparently, a few of James Bond movies have been shot here. But more than that, Lake Zurich belongs very much to the people of Zurich, so there are parks and places to just sit back and enjoy the view or go for a view-ridden walk. 
If you want to take in the crowds and often some local music, head towards the left-hand promenade. But for a more peaceful and green-filled walk along the lake. Either way, if you want to experience true Zurich and indulge in some people-watching this is the place to go.

As you can see, Switzerland packs a punch with something for each kind of traveller. I am definitely glad that I was able to experience this truly spectacular and beautiful place and I can only hope to go back to experience the things I missed.

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Don’t Listen To What They Say. Go See.

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I admit Palma was not high up on my list but sometimes you just have to take the plunge especially when it is February and you need a nice budget friendly place for the school holidays. Hence, I chose to go to Palma a few months ago. And boy, was I surprised? The promise of eternal sunshine aside, I met some of the friendliest people in Palma. Mix that with the sights, the tapas and the Sangria (aaah, Sangria!) you have a winner.

  1. Royal Palace of La Almudaina

My first pick is the Royal Palace of La Almudaina. Originally an Arabian Fort, this grand palace today hosts key events. Located right in the centre of the city, this imposing Alcazar was built in 1309. The insides are built in the medieval style and you will see decor from 15th to 20th centuries adorning its various nook and cranny. The outside is a vast expanse with an open theatre and an adjoining lake meandering by–a perfect spot to just sit, relax and do nothing.

2. Banos Arabes

This is a quirky little garden surrounding the remains of Arab baths from the time of Moorish rule. It is a nice spot to get in some tranquillity away from the hustle-bustle of the city. The bath or the hammam dates back to 10th century and what remains today is just the remains of it but the garden itself is so peaceful, and green that you would forget everything and just want to sit and soak in the sights.

3. Castell de Bellver

Castell de Bellver is a Gothic-style castle on a hill. It was built in the 14th century for King James II of Majorca and is one of the few circular castles in Europe. The best part? To reach this place, you have to go through a mini-forest full of pine trees and interesting flora. That trek itself is a fun experience to have before reaching the Castle and seeing the whole city from the top.

4. Old City

Palma’s old city deserves a mention here. It is an eclectic mix of shopping, history, gastronomy and life. Gothic Churches juxtaposes with scenic squares and century-old patios. Meandering through these streets is a must if you want a true sense of Palma and an explosion of daily-life and culture.

Palma's old city
Palma's Old City

5. Cuevas Del Drach and Torre Del Serral

If you want to explore something outside of the city then head towards Cuevas Del Drach, in the town of Porto Cristo. These ancient caves are about 1,200 metres long with a maximum depth of 25 m. below ground level, The caves contain a large underground lake, Lake Martel. The calcareous formations were formed between 11 and 5.3 million years ago, during the Miocene era. The colours and formations within the cave are truly astonishing and you can see formations resembling a cactus, a flag and even a snowcapped mountain. The tour lasts a little longer than an hour with a floodlit, floating violin concert on the lake—known to be Europe’s largest underground lake, about 170 metres long and between 4 and 12 metres deep.

If you want a bit more of nature then head towards Torre del Serral dels Falcons, a nice walking and picnic spot with beautiful views of the Mediterranean.

As you can see Palma has things for all kinds of travelers–young, old, family, couple, solo, adventurous or laid back. I am definitely glad that I was fortunate enough to experience this place.

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Maxi dresses are the perfect pick for Spring/Summer but till now I thought finding the perfect long sleeved maxi dress is akin to finding a real life unicorn. My hunt for unicorns is still on but at least I’ve found my long sleeved maxi dress.

With its fun bell sleeves and quirky floral motif, this maxi dress has a decided boho vibe. As versatility is a big factor for me, I paired and styled in different ways all in one day.

As you can see this dress can be styled in several different ways. Add a nice belt, denim jacket, heels or flats; your options are endless and the back details take its ante a notch up, don’t you think? Thus making a true wardrobe hero.

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Your feminist premise should be: I matter. I matter equally.

If there’s any writer who can write hard-hitting essays as persuasively and compellingly as novels and short stories and make them utterly readable it is Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. To say, I have read all her work would be an understatement. I have devoured each one of her work and cannot quite point which one I like the best; hence it was natural that I added Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions to my Chimamanda collection.

This book is a quick read with 15 actionable steps to raise a strong and empowered daughter. It shines with Chimamanda’s characteristic warmth and forthrightness but is deeply personal. According to Chimamanda, her friend Ijeawele wrote to ask how she should bring her baby daughter up a feminist, and in response, after the right hesitations – “it felt like too huge a task”– Adichie made this list of 15 suggestions.

I would say that this book should be an essential read to women (and men) everywhere and not just mums with girls—because it would help us to develop more empathy and fine tune our mind on how patriarchy catches up—often unaware. And yes it would help us to raise stronger girls and wiser boys.

For eons, women (and men) have been taught how we need to behave. Girls should be softer and men should be more aggressive. And no matter what women have been taught to be more likable (or risk being tagged Nasty woman, cue Hillary V/S Trump). But this book helps us to identify these unconscious biases and give it a massive f*** you. It also tells us how to defy the societal norms and standards to become your own person.

I wrote about the infamous Nasty Woman episode, a few lines ago. Why? One of the advice in the book is to reject likeability. Easier said than done, I painfully learn even now. I have never been the cool, popular kid, never been the one to succumb to peer pressure and in the face have rejected likeability but even today in moments of honest introspection—I often wonder if I am liked enough by my set of girlfriends, my colleagues, even my family for that matter. See, how unconsciously these societal standards affect us?

Human beings are cultural beings, consistently shaped by ideas and values around us. Throughout history and even in art and culture, we see likeability a major factor (especially for women). Women are unconsciously raised to become people-pleaser. And we need to stop doing this to ourselves and our future generation because as another wise woman said, “Well-behaved women, rarely made history”. 

The other suggestions in the book– about marriage, motherhood, and reading  as well as the often told ‘because you are a girl’, is never a reason for anything” also make equal sense and they all come with personal anecdotes.

I repeat this book is an essential and urgent read. Why? Because to raise feminist daughters (or sons), mothers must take pleasure and pride in their own achievements, follow both the challenges and delights of life and give themselves room to fail. Because ultimately, as Adichie writes, children must be raised to be full people.